Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual FantasiesMacmillan, 18. 1. 2003 - Počet stran: 304 Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. |
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... attempts at rational explanation do an injustice to the inherent spontaneity and mystery of sexual passion . The romantics are wrong . Explaining sex won't make it go away , any more than understanding the physical laws of the universe ...
... attempt to counteract and master specific irrational beliefs in order to enjoy greater erotic pleasure . Psychoanalysts , for example , tend to view many forms of sexuality as based on hostility . My viewpoint is that the hostility ...
... attempt to solve problems and not , as many psychoanalysts would have it , recreate them . An individual's sexuality takes many forms , but the underlying meaning is always the same . Whether that person's sexual arousal is a response ...
... attempting to answer : what determines each person's " bill , " each person's par- ticular set of requirements for sexual arousal ? Why , in West Side Story , was Maria exactly whom Tony was waiting for and vice versa ? Whether it's in ...
... attempt to unlock the meaning of sexual excitement . Its aim has always been to get below the surface of our conscious experience and explore the deep- est levels of our personalities . Freud thought - and I agree that the aim of ...
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HOW SEX WORKS | 17 |
GUILT WORRY AND INHIBITION | 24 |
GUILT RUTHLESSNESS AND SEXUAL EXCITEMENT | 29 |
SHAME HELPLESSNESS AND SEXUAL EXCITEMENT | 36 |
IDENTIFICATION TRANSFERENCE AND SEXUAL EXCITEMENT | 41 |
SOLVING THE PROBLEMS OF IDENTIFICATION AND TRANSFERENCE WITH SEXUAL FANTASIES | 45 |
OVERLAPPING FANTASIES | 47 |
SEXUAL FANTASIES AS ANTIDOTES TO GUILT AND WORRY | 50 |
THE PEEPING TOM | 136 |
PHOTOGRAPHING AND VIDEOTAPING SEX | 137 |
BODY TYPES AND SEXUAL AROUSAL | 139 |
GAY MEN AND SEXUAL AROUSAL IN HETEROSEXUAL WOMEN | 141 |
SEXUAL PLEASURE AND BOREDOM IN RELATIONSHIPS | 142 |
THE NATURAL DECLINE OF SEXUAL INTEREST | 144 |
INTIMACY AND SEXUAL RUTHLESSNESS | 147 |
PATHOGENIC BELIEFS AND SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY | 154 |
THE CASE OF JAN | 51 |
THE CASE OF MANNY | 58 |
THE CASE OF ROBERT | 61 |
THE CASE OF MATT | 64 |
FETISHISM AND SEXUAL AROUSAL | 69 |
THE CASE OF BOB | 73 |
BORN TO LOSE SEXUAL FANTASIES AS ANTIDOTES TO SHAME AND REJECTION | 80 |
THE STORY OF ESTHER | 82 |
IDENTIFICATION AND THE PROBLEMS OF SEXUAL AROUSAL | 90 |
THE CASE OF GLENN | 92 |
OTTO AND HIS FIXATION ON YOUTH | 98 |
THE CASE OF AMANDA | 104 |
SAFETY AND THE SEXUALIZATION OF ABUSE | 112 |
FROM THE CONVENTIONAL TO THE BIZARRE INTERPRETING SEXUAL FANTASIES | 115 |
MASOCHISM AND SEXUAL AROUSAL | 117 |
GOLDEN OR BROWN SHOWERS | 120 |
MEN WEARING WOMENS PANTIES | 121 |
DIAPERED AND TREATED LIKE A BABY | 122 |
ASPHYXIATION FANTASIES | 123 |
DOMINANCE AND SEXUAL AROUSAL | 124 |
RAPE FANTASIES | 126 |
MASTERSLAVE RELATIONSHIPS | 127 |
INCEST FANTASIES | 128 |
MULTIPLE PARTNERS | 132 |
GANG RAPE | 135 |
THE CASE OF MARK AND BETSY | 157 |
THE CASE OF JIM AND LAURA | 163 |
THE CASE OF ROB AND NICOLE | 168 |
THE PROBLEM OF THE GOOD WIFE | 171 |
THE ROLE OF SEXUAL FANTASIES IN PSYCHOTHERAPY | 180 |
SHAME SELFACCEPTANCE AND SEXUAL FANTASIES IN PSYCHOTHERAPY | 183 |
THE ROLE OF PATHOGENIC BELIEFS IN PSYCHOTHERAPY | 189 |
SAFETY TESTING AND CHANGE IN PSYCHOTHERAPY | 197 |
MECHANISMS OF CHANGE IN PSYCHOTHERAPY | 204 |
SEXUAL FANTASIES ARE DIFFICULT TO CHANGE | 210 |
THE SOCIAL MEANING OF SEXUAL FANTASIES | 218 |
BLAMING THE PARENTS AND THE ABUSE EXCUSE | 223 |
GENDER DIFFERENCES IN SEXUAL FANTASY | 233 |
WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAAMTHE PSYCHOLOGY OF OBJECTIFICATION | 240 |
WILL YOU STILL LOVE ME TOMORROW?PATHOGENIC BELIEFS AND THE IDEALIZATION OF ROMANTIC LOVE IN WOMEN | 247 |
THE PERSONAL FINALLY MEETS THE POLITICAL | 255 |
THE FUTURE OF SEX FINAL REFLECTIONS UNANSWERED QUESTIONS | 258 |
AN ADAPTIVE ILLUSION OR DANGEROUS ADDICTION? | 263 |
WILL THERE BE SEXUAL FANTASIES AFTER THE REVOLUTION? | 276 |
THE VALUE OF UNDERSTANDING SEXUAL FANTASIES | 279 |
THE EMPERORS NEW CLOTHES AND THE MEANING OF SEXUAL FANTASY | 283 |
REFERENCES | 287 |
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Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies Michael Bader,Michael J. Bader Náhled není k dispozici. - 2003 |